Wednesday, November 26, 2025

Every educator’s nightmare: The moment classroom management turns into a negotiation with an immovable object.


Recently, I found myself in the same situation when teaching a group of students unfamiliar with my methods. The topic of the classroom discussion was ‘Nora’s nervousness’ in Act II of Henrik Ibsen’s ‘A Doll’s House’. The question for the discussion was to know personal insights, yet some of the students immediately opened their laptops, attempting to search for the correct answer. When repeated warning failed and still whispering continued, the ultimate solution arrived to me, where I had to ask them to leave the class if they were not interested in the session. However, they question back, “Tell us what had we done to leave the classroom.” Both sides were acting on what felt like self-evident truth, but our truths occupied completely different realities.

Perspective 1: The Perspective of Digital Efficiency

The major source of conflict is born from the students’ perspective of digital efficiency. For this generation that raised on instant information access, the educational process is often perceived as a rapid search for the single, correct data point. Their immediate instinct is to open laptops, go to ChatGPT or other AI tools despite the clear absence of a need of external research. It is not an act of rebellion or defiance but of their deepest academic habit. For them ‘if a question exists’ then ‘an answer exists’, and if answer exists, then the correct method to search the answer is the method which can give answer rapidly, quickly. Students’ perspective is validated by the speed of ChatGPT, leads to their firm belief that they are correct. They were being productive and efficient. And that is why the teacher’s instructions to stop was perceived as an obstacle to learning.

Perspective 2: The Perspective of Teaching Method’s Intention

Here, the teacher’s perspective is defined by the process. My insistence on putting down the devices and raising hands was not a power move, but a necessary defense of a specific, critical learning goal.

The question about Nora’s crisis demanded listening, synthesising and respective argumentation. The intention of the activity/discussion was to force students to grapple with ambiguity, test their memory and interpretation, and build on each other’s contribution. From this point of view, students’ behaviour was not only disruptive but it was uncooperating to the learning environment. When they asked what they had done wrong, they were demanding a rule violation, but the actual wrongdoing was the repeated failure to acknowledge and participate in the group discussion which in way was a communal intellectual contract. This perspective in the belief that process matters more than product, makes our actions feel equally, and completely, right.

However, the explosive moment was their question – Tell us what we had done wrong to leave the classroom. These students are accustomed to autonomy often given to the IBDP students. They interpret their freedom as the ‘right to dictate their learning conditions’. Their habitual reliance on technology and their intent to find the answer validated their actions, make them ignorant to the two key violations of the classroom discussion.

First Key Violation: Disregard for the Procedure: They were repeatedly instructed to stop and failed to comply, showing a profound disrespect for the authority managing the environment.

Second Key Violation: Disregard for Peers: These students were so fixated on their own intent that they completely ignored everything else; particularly the consequence of their actions on other students’ learning.

In their minds, they were right, their intentions were pure so they should not to be asked to leave the classroom. Their own perspective blinded them to the simple truth i.e. When your ‘RIGHT’ to pursue your own agenda repeatedly oversteps on the learning rights of others, then the boundaries must be enforced.

The conflict in the classroom that day was not about technology, discipline, or even a classic play; it was a pure collision of validated self-perspectives. This dynamic where both parties are certain of their own correctness is the greatest persistent challenge in education today.

As educators, we must recognize that the simple enforcement of rules does not address the underlying problems in learning. To truly break through, we must do more than state the rule; we must make the consequences of their perspective visible. This requires teaching students to shift their focus from their personal, immediate intent ("I am researching") to the collective, social impact ("I am disrupting the learning of twenty peers").

Ultimately, the lesson derived from this impasse is that while we cannot eliminate perspective, we can, and must, teach the humility required to acknowledge that our way is not the only way. Only by dissecting these moments, showing how their belief in being right leads to destructive outcomes, can we begin to nurture the collaborative, reflective thinkers our pedagogy demands.

 

Every educator’s nightmare: The moment classroom management turns into a negotiation with an immovable object.

Recently, I found myself in the same situation when teaching a group of students unfamiliar with my methods. The topic of the classroom disc...